D' Sea Publishers: "Partnering with your Partner

Your background is quite different from your partner's. This is an incontestable fact. Consequently, the yoking together of uneven, and in most cases, unbending characters that have undergone a complete metamorphosis or cycle of formation is no doubt a rather herculean task if not a rare feat to be performed especially in this fast moving world today. This has therefore parented a lot of divorce and broken homes. But I bet you, it is not as difficult to build a lasting relationship as we often portray it. The problem with most partners is often premised on power tussle. Feminine excesses can of course be as intolerable as their revolt on bed and in the kitchen can be equally unbearable. But have you taken some time to look more inward to see where you yourself got it wrong instead of always beaming a blinding searchlight on your partner's wrong. Have you taken time to cherish his/her right much more than despising his or her wrong. She/he is not perfect just as you have got your own weaknesses. So, who is to be blame. 
Always bear this in mind that: marriage is communication yoked with tolerance. Communication itself means a lot more than verbal or attitudinal expressions. It is also encapsulate the science and art of good interpretations and feedback mechanism. The ability to read in between lines and anticipate the actions of your partner or read your partner's mind. What turns him/her on, what puts him/her off, what he or she likes, what interest him or her. You must assume the role of an artist who creates and recreates an ideal living. An artist that appreciates creativity and adores originality. This therefore brings us to the point that is most vital; and that is: be yourself! Don't pretend to be who you are not. Don't try to be artificial; rather seek to be natural. Being natural brings out the best in you. While being artificial only suppress your ability to make a good home as well as refrain you from fully exploring your potentials. Why not consider the following as useful tips to setting up a good relationship:
1) Ladies, please know that men will always be boys. Let them be! Don't expect them to enjoy everything you do. Give them their space. Let them kick back and watch a football game with their buddies.

2) Guys like it when their girl dresses up for them. They like knowing you make effort. And strangely, I have realized that most men don't like women wearing make-up look.

3) Guys can't multi-task, women can, men can't.

Frankly speaking also, men should know that:
1) Women like shoes and stuffing their wardrobes. Period! Please, deal with it.

2) When you go out shopping with women/ladies they would actually like you to be keenly interested and get yourself involved and not just stand stand around wishing you were somewhere else.

3) When ladies say they'd like to talk, they actually like you to sit and listen. Don't you ever find excuses to avoid it!
This the "A" part. Please, join me to cap it up in the "B" segment.

------- Wale Oladokun.www.google.com